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This Is Us

TV2016
ShowrunnerDan Fogelman
CountryUnited States · English
QualityDramaFamilyDevastatingLong Commitment

The review

This Is Us was one of the defining broadcast-network hits of its era — a sprawling, non-linear family drama that made viewers cry on a weekly basis and became a genuine watercooler phenomenon during a period when appointment TV was supposedly dead. At its best, it combined the warmth of classic network family dramas with a structural ambition that kept audiences guessing: every episode shuffled across multiple timelines spanning decades of the Pearson family's life, rewarding close attention with carefully seeded reveals. The ensemble was uniformly strong, anchored by Sterling K. Brown's Emmy-winning performance as Randall, a Black man adopted by a white family who carries both profound gratitude and an aching search for identity. Mandy Moore and Milo Ventimiglia anchored the show's emotional center as Rebecca and Jack, with Moore's arc in particular gaining depth and acclaim as the series progressed.

The show's weaknesses were as consistent as its strengths. Critics and audiences frequently flagged its emotional manipulation — skeptics nicknamed it "Twist Is Us" — pointing to telegraphed revelations, heavy-handed musical cues, and a willingness to wring every drop of sentiment from a scene. The middle seasons ballooned with concurrent timelines and subplots, and one season in particular drew criticism for heavy-handed topical messaging that some fans felt overwhelmed character storytelling. Critics split on whether the emotional machinery was genuinely earned or merely effective; both sides generally agreed the performance quality and sincerity were never the problem.

The series finale, however, largely unified skeptics and faithful alike. By setting the twists aside and trusting the characters' small, quiet moments, the ending was near-universally praised for sticking the landing — a rare achievement for a long-running serialized drama. It reinforced that This Is Us, for all its excesses, was a show that genuinely loved its characters and wanted audiences to leave them feeling hopeful.

  • Season 1

    The breakout debut whose pilot became famous for its closing twist: the interconnected strangers sharing a birthday turned out to be a family. Sterling K. Brown's Emmy-winning performance as Randall anchored the season. The mid-season episode revealing Jack's death became a cultural watermark and cemented the show's signature blend of mystery and grief.

  • Season 2

    Doubled down on the nonlinear structure, filling in Jack's Vietnam backstory and the immediate aftermath of his death. Mandy Moore and Milo Ventimiglia's performances deepened as the show examined how the family learned to live without its patriarch. Generally seen as sustaining the debut's quality, though some critics noted the twist mechanics were becoming formulaic.

  • Season 3

    Expanded the timeline again to follow Rebecca's early music career and Randall's search for his birth family. Introduced the "future timeline" device that would carry the show's endgame. Reception remained strong, but reviews began to note strain from juggling so many eras.

  • Season 4

    Brought the "Big Three" to age 40 and deepened the future storyline. Kate and Kevin's adult arcs grew more central, drawing more mixed critical response than Randall's consistently strong throughline. Still delivered episodes with enormous emotional impact, including several of the series' most devastating hours.

  • Season 5

    Shot through the pandemic, incorporating COVID and a Black Lives Matter story arc into Randall's journey. Took a critical dip: some viewers and reviewers found the topical material heavy-handed and Kate's storyline one-dimensional. The weakest-reviewed season of the run, though it retained its core audience.

  • Season 6

    The final season refocused the story around Rebecca's Alzheimer's diagnosis and the family gathering around her, giving Mandy Moore her most acclaimed work. The series finale ("Us") was widely praised for sticking the landing, choosing small, intimate moments over another grand twist.

Who it's for

Viewers who love emotional, character-driven family sagas with strong ensemble casts and nonlinear storytelling — fans of Parenthood, Brothers & Sisters, thirtysomething, and Friday Night Lights are the clearest match. People who watch television to feel — who don't mind crying on a weekly basis and actively enjoy being emotionally worked over. Audience members who appreciate well-crafted slow-burn reveals and long-serialized arcs that reward paying close attention across many seasons. Anyone who finds comfort in stories about family bonds, grief, resilience, and the idea that love can outlast loss.

Who it's not for

Viewers with a low tolerance for melodrama or overtly sentimental storytelling that reaches for the heartstrings with visible machinery. Those who prefer gritty realism, moral ambiguity, or restraint in emotional registers. People who dislike twist-dependent plotting or time-jumping narrative structures. Anyone who resents a show that knows exactly what it's doing when it makes you cry — the manipulation is sincere but unmistakable.Death of a parent · Grief and loss · Alcoholism and addiction recovery · Eating disorders / weight struggles · Alzheimer's disease / dementia · Racism and adoption-related identity trauma · Pregnancy loss · Chronic illness · Pandemic-related themes

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