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Better Things

TV2016
ShowrunnerPamela Adlon
CountryUnited States · English
ClassicComedyDramaIntimatePrestigeAdult

The review

Better Things is a semi-autobiographical comedy-drama about a working actress and single mother raising three daughters in Los Angeles while shepherding her aging English mother across the street — a portrait critics almost universally describe as one of television's most singular and accomplished achievements of its era. Nearly every review centers the same astonishment: that a show about the mundane, unglamorous labor of a middle-aged woman — the cooking, chauffeuring, bill-paying, arguing, and loving that mainstream television has largely treated as invisible — could be rendered with such ferocious wit and such startling emotional power. Adlon's total authorship (she wrote, directed, produced, and starred, running the show herself) is treated as the engine of that achievement, with her performance singled out again and again for its 'sagacious pluck' and its refusal of sentimentality. Critics repeatedly reached for landmark language: the show has been called a masterpiece, named to multiple best-of-the-decade lists, and won a Peabody Award for its first season.

The show's style is its signature and its limitation. It is deliberately episodic and anti-climactic, assembling loosely connected vignettes of domestic life — 'like you've always just had access to someone's naturally non-linear thought processes' — rather than driving a plot. Critics who admire this (the large majority) praise its refusal of false sentiment and its 'allegorical beauty'; those who resist it describe the same qualities as aimless, meandering, and occasionally self-indulgent, especially in later seasons' formal experiments (a silent-film interlude, a mock-Instagram sequence, extended dream spaces), which split reviewers between those who found them transcendent and those who found them showy. Its history with co-creator Louis C.K., removed after his 2017 misconduct admission, hangs over the earlier seasons' reception; critics overwhelmingly concluded that the show emerged from that rupture as more fully and unmistakably Adlon's own.

Thematic consensus is near-total: the series is a multigenerational meditation on women's invisible work — the exhaustion, love, and volcanic anger of caregiving — and it treats aging, illness, and mortality with unusual directness, finding 'a lot of funny in the darkness.' The sharpest critical disagreement is less about quality than appetite: viewers and critics who need plot machinery found it diffuse, while those who prize observational truth-telling ranked it among the best television of the decade. Tellingly, the show's audience scores, though strong, run below its near-unanimous critical consensus — a gap that reflects the patience it demands more than any failure of execution. The final season was greeted as a near-perfect landing, with critics emphasizing that the show ended at its peak, 'not slumping toward the finish line.'

  • Season 1

    Season 1 (2016): Introduced Sam Fox's world of working-acting, single motherhood, and domestic chaos in a deliberately plotless, observational style, earning a Peabody Award. Its finale, 'Only Women Bleed,' a nearly wordless montage of Sam's unending domestic labor set to music, was singled out by critics as one of the year's best episodes and a manifesto for the show's ambitions.

  • Season 2

    Season 2 (2017): Adlon took over directing every episode, and critics judged the show sharper, bolder, and even more confident — several called it extraordinary. The haunting road-trip episode 'White Rock,' which surfaces a buried family secret, was widely hailed as an all-time great episode. The season ended just as the Louis C.K. scandal broke, throwing the show's future into doubt.

  • Season 3

    Season 3 (2019): The first season fully in Adlon's own voice after C.K.'s removal, built with her first solo writers' room — and the consensus peak, with critics calling it the best the show had ever been. Sending eldest daughter Max to college, it leaned into themes of absent fathers and ghosts, weaving dream spaces and hallucinatory detours into its vignettes.

  • Season 4

    Season 4 (2020): A formally audacious season produced amid the pandemic, featuring experimental interludes including a black-and-white silent-film sequence and a satirical mock-Instagram segment. Critics agreed the show 'just keeps getting better,' anchored by Adlon's ever-more-assured total authorship.

  • Season 5

    Season 5 (2022): The farewell season, with a new actress taking over the middle daughter and a memory-driven, non-linear structure that revisited the show's past as it looked to 'the road ahead.' Centering on a wedding, Los Angeles landmarks, and Sam's place in her family 'village,' it was widely declared a perfect landing — 'as good as it gets.'

Who it's for

People who love character-driven, observational dramedies — *Louie*'s form re-centered on a woman's life; viewers who appreciate stories that treat motherhood, middle age, and caregiving as dramatically worthy subjects rather than backdrop; single parents and anyone in the 'sandwich generation' caring for children and aging parents simultaneously will likely feel seen; fans of quiet, vignette-based storytelling that rewards patience over plot; and admirers of Pamela Adlon's singular voice (from *King of the Hill* and *Louie*). Its Los Angeles texture, its love of art and cooking, and its four-generation female ensemble give it unusually broad emotional reach despite its niche feel.

Who it's not for

Viewers who need plot momentum, clear arcs, or a joke-per-minute comedy engine will likely bounce off — the show is built on accumulation, not hooks. Those who find deliberately 'nothing happens' episodic structure frustrating, or who dislike unvarnished, unsentimental portraits of family friction, aging bodies, and bodily life, should temper expectations. It is also not for people with a low tolerance for formal experimentation in later seasons, or for viewers seeking a conventional sitcom or a tidy, uplifting family comedy. (And anyone who cannot watch a show with a co-creator later credibly accused of misconduct — however fully his footprint receded — should know that context going in.)Strong language throughout · Frank sexual content and explicit references · Alcohol and recreational substance use, including drug-induced hallucination sequences · Heavy themes of aging, dementia-like decline, caregiving exhaustion, and death · Teen angst, vaping, and adolescent sexuality · Emotional intensity that can be devastating

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